...Last Memorial Day I mourned the soldiers who fell. This Veterans Day I want to thank the veterans who saved my life and ask that every American, especially those of my age, take this day to understand those of us who served.

When someone finds out I served in Iraq they always make a comment. A nonveteran will say, "Thank you," but a veteran will say, "Welcome home, how are you?" Thank you to everyone who asked that question. You helped me find that new person I didn't understand when I returned home. You helped me find the person I want to be in the future, a person who will always strive to make a difference in another veteran's life.

If there is a soldier you know who is overseas, send him an e-mail or a card or a package -- to let him know you care. Ask his wife if she needs help with the kids. Give her some telephone cards so she can call her husband overseas. On your day off, do more than just thank veterans -- act. If you help a veteran, you can make a difference.

Above all, today, don't just thank veterans for their service. Instead, ask them how they are.